Why you might never break the Arewa marriage circle My NYSC Orientation Camp Experience. A threat...............
During NYSC i saw one Arewa babe i really liked, she probably noticed I've been eyeing her, i found a way and we chatted for some Minutes exchanging names, platoon and even hostel details.Her phone was at the charging spot and her number's new so we couldn't exchange number
The next day i saw her at the mami. In a minute she was alone, i said hi, she replied and after i finished the transaction i was making to go have a conversation with my new catch, boom! she ignored me . First it was so painful and unreal,i was surprised,we flowed so well just
Recently. so what might have happened 😞 i then notice her walking with some group of Arewa males and females. Consequent times i tried approaching her but she kept ignoring. Worried, i spoke to this my Arewa guy in my hostel named Katuka about the situation i was in .it was he
Who then revealed the secrets to me. He told me our attraction music have gotten compromise and that Aishat continue talking to me might be too risky for her as her people must have noticed us that first time and warned or threatened her, most probably with and her parent .
And so she had to always ignore me no matter how even if she's not cool with it. Katuka advised i forget about it,cause even though we were emotionally attracted , nothing will ever happen between physically no matter how i tried.
He said they the Arewas are like they early bourgeoisie in England , they really protect their lineage through ethnic and religion lines and even when there's an exception, It's really among lines of relational Influence solely dictated by the father or elders in the family.
My friend a son of a chief as mentioned that another odd occasion is if the lady has lived all her life outside the country and happens to have a non - indigene mother. After everything Katuka said to me, my believe that true love always beat the test of all difficulty changed.
As with the Arewas , getting their daughter outside the above mentioned way is almost impossible. My guy consoled me as he muttered. "Kai kyakkyawa ne kuma wayayye zaka samu wata yarinya a cikin dukkan 'yan matan nan 900 da ke nan". Saying I'll find another girl in camp.
Trust me brothers, i don't mean to taint your dreams but ,it's the toughest circle to break in the country. I'm still open to getting an Arewa babe though,cause Nothing is Impossible! ✌🏻 @threadreaderapp @UnrollThread @Chiedochie_ @olamide_xoxo @FavourAkhigbe @umzzy_sarki
@MarquizDejavex @threadreaderapp @UnrollThread @Chiedochie_ @olamide_xoxo @FavourAkhigbe Sorry about that bro. I feel for you too but always remember anything is possible.. believe 💪🏻
