If you’re a woman, you have two choices when picking a man. You either pick someone who’s complacent, sits on the couch like a sloth, but caters to your emotional needs and is available all the time. Or you pick someone ambitious with a purpose that has no availability.
Pick your poison carefully. Because if you select an available man, you will eventually become repulsed by him. But then DONT complain and find it unacceptable for a man to be working on his purpose and deliver a better future for the family that INCLUDES YOU as a whole.
You don’t know what you want. Understand that. The moment we give you what you want, you flip flop like a dying fish to the other side. Here’s some advice. Pick a man with NO availability. Because thats a man with purpose and ambition. He is the right selection.
And his unavailability is a sacrifice. He is doing everything to build a better future. And that should constitute a degree of sacrifice on YOUR part: For you not to be a nuisance and understand to control your emotional needs and support him.
No man wants to not be available. But that’s the sacrifice we make to secure our future. If you don’t like that, then find a sloth on the couch who watches netflix all day. Or find a guy who’s loaded with inheritance money but can’t iron his own shirt. Pick and sacrifice.
