If you didn’t play your cards right, failing to achieve a position at the age of 30 where you are no longer at the mercy of misery, then marriage is not for you. Aim to improve your own life alone. Don’t drag others down with you. If you’re not ready, you’re not ready.
“But my wife will give me the motivation” “The woman makes the man” This is all nonsense. Its your responsibility to construct a family that can solely be looked after by you. If you f#cked around in your youth, then you’re in no position to demand a decent partner for family.
This is the cost of your poor choices. Pay it.
