To the "good and morally upright" Ladies, the advantage the hook up girls have over you is positioning. Their line of work exposes them to more and more men. Please understand that a man won't come and find you in your house just because you are good. Positioning matters a lot.
There's nothing wrong with being good.Truth is that the hook up girls have to eventually pretend to be good to be able to con & manipulate those men into marrying them but the fact still remains they were opportuned to meet those men at all because their work exposes them to it.
I am not telling you to start hookup,I am only telling you to step out of your house & position yourself properly. The second advantage they have over you is that you are quite naive and gullible but they aren't. They probably went into the hookup to survive or maintain a certain
Lifestyle so the moment they meet a rich man who can do that for them, they lock him down. They have no business with anything that has to do with Love. They are quite smart and act fast which is why it looks like majority of them who do get married strictly marry very rich men.
You on the other hand believe because you are a good person, you and your struggling boyfriend will eventually break even and become billionaires but it does not always work like that. Every struggling or broke guy will not end up rich. Life is not in anyway a nollywood movie.
Contrary to whatever it is you see online on how men just need to make money and women will be all over them, majority of these rich men are buried in their work and so do not have time to meet women or know how to approach one. They are also extremely gullible and naive whenever
It has to do with matters of the heart so they are quite easy to manipulate and con into marriage. Some of them rely heavily on hookup to be able to meet women and these hookup girls being so smart can detect when a man is like that and so find ways to quickly get them to commit.
An Igbo business man that did not see the four walls of a classroom,went for boy boy, got settled and started his own business will most likely marry any runs girl from Unizik or Imsu whenever he wants to settle down.She just has to be pretty, have a degree and be good in bed.
