There’s just no way a career orientated woman would be a good wife and a mother. It’s not possible. So many homes have been broken because women due to western advanced individualist notions believe they have a right to have a career & the same time manage a home and be a mother.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Take a cursory look at western nations today, it’s a broken wreckage all because women have abandoned their natural responsibility to chase after worldly glory. In Canada and some states in the US, a child has the right to change their
Gender without parental consent. This is the height of modernization they do crave. In arewa, notice girls who read novels, they’re the ones with such notions of 21st century career oriented woman because it’s the garbage they’ve been reading since primary school.
People like Sydney Sheldon for example have done irreparable damage to the psych of our women today. There’s a reason why all his books have heroines and having protagonists and main characters as women. It’s to advance the western notion of utopian and unrealistic
Notions of love. This has filled their heads with all sorts of nonsense about romance and all. Something they won’t get from us, this made them bitter. A bitter woman cannot be a good mother. Then it graduated to a career, making women believe that they could be happy with just
Their career. Whether they had a man or children wasn’t the point, point was their happiness. Now it has them believing that they could have a career and perhaps a child or two to raise. Go to Abuja and see single women taking care of their children or orphans, Altho this is
Another story entirely. To make it feasible, crèche was created. But sincerely tell me, does it make sense to drop your kid in a crèche by 7 and pick him up by 5? Sincerely, why did you agree to give birth if you know you’ll abandon your responsibility? You’ll find women
Complaining of their Kids being abused in crèche, why won’t they be abused when you’ve abandoned your responsibilities? The same thing happens at home with domestic workers women leave their kids with, they abuse them, destroying their lives and growing a society full of damaged
Adults without knowing the cause, that’s the cause! Go to offices in Abuja, su FIRS, PEF, NIMASA and co, go and see single women in their late forties regretting the lives they’ve led. No man wants them, and if they’re lucky they get a 70 something year old man with 3 wives and
Children their age mates, having children for them is out of the question. They’re successful yes, but only in the material sense, life isn’t fulfilling for them at all. You go back home to an empty house, truly a pity. Recently, a consultant who resigned from his work shared
That he came back home early, around 9:30 and overhead his 4yr old daughter asking her 10 yr old sister wether that was their father, she didn’t know him because he was never at home. The encounter scared him and he decided to talk to his wife, also a consultant, in fact his
Senior, whether she’ll consider reducing her workload to be there for the children. She flat out told him no, that her career was more important and the children would be fine. He dropped his job the next week to stay home and take care of his children. He said he’s never been
Happier. This is the type of women we have today, a complete departure from our parents who would die to be with us, nurture us and educate us. Thanks to the west, this isn’t the case anymore. A sad reality for us that we must arrest now, else deal with the consequences in the
Future when our kids openly become homosexuals, a lot of people won’t understand that this is ultimately the endgame, when the family system is broken, when women assume the responsibility of men and neglect their duties, you’ll have children with absolutely no training. The
West would find it easy to influence such children to be whatever they want, we’re in trouble. Children in Islam are the joy of life and sight of the sore eyes. Islam pays special attention to children and the Islamic Sharia states that children have rights and duties over
their parents. A child gets the first images of life enshrined in its mind from the environment of his parents. The Prophet SAW said: "No child is born but has the Islamic Faith, but its parents turn it into a Jew or a Christian". The parents have the greatest influence on
children's religion and morals. Therefore, children's interests and the future of the nation depend on children's righteousness. Accordingly, children's rights begin as early as before their birth; choosing a good mother and good father and a good environment to raise them.
What Then happens when your child learns his worldview from strangers? Be it a Christian caregiver in his crèche that puts gospel songs for him when you drop him to go chase the world, or the househelp you brought from the village whose moral upbringing is questionable and not
In sync with the way you want to raise your child, who do you blame when your child is abused and doesn’t turn out the way you want in the future? At the end of the day as Muslims, we want children who’ll obey us, treat us with respect when we get old, and ultimately pray for
Us and give sadaqah on our behalf when we die. This is the ultimate goal. Your child won’t accord you such privilege if you do not perform your responsibility to them when they were growing up. It’s like do me I do you. There are critical aspects of our lives that women must work
I understand that. But we as a society must come together to make it happen. Let us make the lives of our women simple and easy so they could groom the future generation. For example I see no reason why we can’t have arrangements for female doctors in the north to work few hours
In the morning and maybe evening time, leaving the bulk of their time to train and impact good tarbiyah on our children because as much as a man wants to, there are aspects of tarbiyah only a mother can give her child, it’s why you’ll
See a sheikh for example and wonder why he has immoral children, check the mother, the answer is always there. She didn’t perform her responsibility correctly or she’s a bad wife. This is a way of the world. The sooner we understand and come into terms with it the better for us.
